#ESMEINK : “Aloneness” Day 27

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{ Aloneness }

“To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this, you need to experience solitude, which most people are  afraid of, because in the silence, you hear the truth and know the solutions.”

-Deepak Chopra

Alone time is a sense of freedom in my eyes. I think its’ a prerequisite for happiness. I’ve been needing a lot of it lately. Probably because my mind is still so busy. So much ahead in the next month-and-a-bit.

It’s really tough to sort out my own thoughts without it. Knowing how to be alone isn’t easy for everyone. But for me, it’s easy. I revel in it. It is a time of great personal growth for me. Whether it means listening to my music, reading, crying, writing.

I am not afraid of the dark, of solitude. I don’t fear bing alone for days at a time. Never have.

I think moms can get so caught up in caring for so many other lives, that before we know it, years have passed. We lose our identity. Who the hell are we anymore?

My goal as a mother, is to not let that happen. The more time I can spend self-loving, growing, caring and nurturing, the better I will love my clan. Aloneness brings me peace.

I’ve made my list of things I need to do to spruce up the spare room downstairs to create my little sanctuary. This project excites me so much!

Last night Pinterest-ed the “she-shed”.  A female variation on the man cave. This idea is amazing! While space for one is not currently in the cards, it may be in the future.

“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”

-bell hooks

#ESMEINK Journal Entry by Lise-Marie Johnson 

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